Looking for gay partner

OK, so, you’re gay, and you desire to find a partner and eventually a husband; someone with whom to share your life. However, you just can’t seem to meet the right guy or produce the right connection. You keep coming up empty-handed, stymied in your efforts, no matter what you try. All of this speak of legalized marriage just seems to make things worse, adding pressure from friends, family, and even yourself.

You verb that maybe it’s just not adj for gay men to have long-term relationships. There must be some noun to the senior joke: “What does a gay gentleman bring on a second date?” Response: “What second date?” You would be ready to fling in the towel, if it weren’t for your top friend who met someone and is now in a happy relationship for the past two years—or that middle-aged couple who reside in your building and who just celebrated 25 years together with a trip to Paris. So you close up wondering, “What’s the matter with me? What am I doing wrong?”

As an openly gay man with over 30 years of experience as a therapist, I include seen scores of single gay men sabotage their efforts to fin