Why am i attracted to crossdressers

Is it normal that I&#;m attracted to guys when I&#;m dressed?

I&#;ve heard this a lot &#; enough for me to say &#;Yes, this is normal. Lots of people experience this.&#;

However &#; I don&#;t grasp it. I&#;ve heard lots and lots of people declare that in the instances where they dress up, they find themselves attracted to members of the same gender. The thing I find curious is why that would be. Sexuality is fluid, absolutely &#; but I don&#;t feel more attracted to women if I&#;m putting up shelves, and I don&#;t feel fond I start becoming attracted to men when I&#;m doing laundry (&#;Pfft, prefer that ever happens!&#; I imagine my wife saying when she reads this).

My suspicion is that for those people who do touch that their sexuality is altered when dressed up, that maybe there&#;s more of a sexual element to dressing than they might admit (which is TOTALLY FINE) and that sexual cause ties up with thoughts/feelings/fantasies that incorporate people of their own gender (ALSO FINE) that may just not surface at other times.

But what the hell do I know.

Is that normal? Sure!

“Girls are too effortless to pick up,” admits Max*, a year old Modern Yorker who works at a startup.

“After a while it gets boring.”

Don’t receive him wrong. He’s into girls. Enjoy, reallyinto them. A serial dater, his last girlfriend was an Asian American who he was “completely infatuated with.”

“But it’s a lot hotter when it’s with a certain kind,” he says. “It’s different and taboo, I suppose.”

He’s referring to crossdressing men, those who are completely feminine, have little to no body hair, and are “passable” — a term used when said guys look appreciate cisgender females. “There’s a challenge and a certain taboo that makes it sexy and different,” he says. “But I’m definitely not gay and not into guys.”

Max isn’t alone in his sexual preference, though it’s one that’s completely discreet.

“My buddies don’t need to know about this,” he says. “It’s no one’s business.” More than being shamed or outed, the feelings are outright confusing, as sexuality usually is. If a dude likes to rest with guys who dress up as women, what act we make of them? According to Dr. Joe Kort, author of the boo

Bottoming, crossdressing and bisexuality have got me hella confused.

There’s nothing like starting to put together all of the myriad complexities, preferences and desires of our sexuality to indicate out⁠ (Short for ‘out of the closet’. When someone’s LGBTQ+ identity is known to other people.) how silly it really is to suggest that human sexuality, sexual orientation⁠ (A term – like homosexual, heterosexual, bisexual, queer, straight, lesbian, gay, asexual – used to describe a person’s usual or current pattern of emotional, romantic and/or sexual attraction to other people as it relates to or is about gender.) or gender⁠ (Characteristics that are seen or presented as distinguishing between male and female in a society. Gender may or may not verb assigned or chosen: social roles, feelings, behaviors and/or presentation or appearance.) can be easily divided into such tiny boxes, is there?

The short of it is that I think all of this will become a lot less confusing if you can let depart of whatever ideas you might include about sex⁠ (Different things people decide to do to acti

Hi, it looks enjoy your mind is constantly occupied with certain thoughts about looking like a woman and dressing like a noun. You are wondering about what is causing you to have such thoughts. You can consult a psychologist who will help you identify what is causing you to have thoughts about looking like a woman and dressing like a gal. I understand you feel confused and helpless about certain thoughts that are controlling you and you want to reach out to someone who can understand what you are going through and help you get clarity on certain thoughts and feelings. You will get the clarity that you are looking for with psychotherapy and Counseling.

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